I (33) am pregnant. Caught husband (30) on dating app.

Wow. The comments in here are harsh. I don't know if rightfully so or not, but they are harsh.

I also found my partner's very active Tinder profile during what was supposed to be (and sure felt like) our honeymoon phase. The moment of discovery has been one of the most painful things I have ever experienced and I have been through some tough shit in my life. Seeing my very partner, my best friend (supposedly) name and pictures right there in front of my eyes on the screen... any of you who's had a similar moment know how utterly sickening and twisted it feels.

We've our intake meeting for counseling this Wednesday but I don't know what to expect, cause he seems extremely disconnected from the reality of what he's done. However, we are not married and he could have easily dismissed the idea of therapy; his willingness to do it for us is the ONLY thing which keeps me hopeful. I am not mentally "there" to make a final decision before we at least go there.

You're carrying a child. They are the most important thing in the world right now. There is not a single doubt about it. Make sure you do anything possible to rest and take care of yourself, and don't feel in any rush to make a life-altering decision right now. And yes, go to therapy together, absolutely. This is my opinion.

/r/survivinginfidelity Thread