Hey there! I'm 36 and in Winston. I'm married and have 3 kids.

I've felt the same way you have before. With 3 kids it's so hard to stay connected with your spouse. During the day the kids take most of the time. Then at night we just need down time and want to do our own thing.

We didn't have much sex and our relationship was in a really bad place. I had a couple of affairs because I wanted that connection with someone else. It was really stupid and I regret it so much.

Fast forward to now and our relationship is amazing. We're more open with each other and intentionally spend time together. Our sex life is the best it's ever been. We have a semi open relationship which had definitely helped some.

Anyway I can totally relate to how you feel. If you're interested in chatting some then I would love to. I like having someone I can just chat with about life when I'm not busy at work or doing family stuff.

Let me know if you're interested. I hope to hear from you soon!