I [33 M] am planning on moving to another country with my Girlfriend [24 F] of nine months where I don't speak the language. Am I an idiot?

I have absolutely zero issue with constructive negative feedback. I've replied to negative comments here and thanked them for their opinion.

"This is a naive plan for a man in his late teens. For a man in his 30s to be considering this is nearly unbelievable."

That's not remotely constructive.

I responded to your criticism about what happens if it goes wrong, which it might.

I'm perfectly happy to hear opinions that aren't just validation but the post that is now deleted (from someone who clearly has some very significant issues).

There's a line between being constructive and just pointlessly negative and the original OP of this change in ding ovens ready are in my opinion very near it.

Thank you for the luck, it is much appreciated :).

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