33 y/o F and 36 y/o M LDR meeting for the first time

’m worried that I’m not his type and won’t physically be attracted to me after we see each other but he has assured me that’s not the case at all and that in his mind we’re end game.

We’ve exchanged I Love you’s, it’s getting pretty serious. There has been talk about moving somewhere together as well but that’s tbd.

Wow.... I'm sorry, but this sort of stuff should ALWAYS make you take a step backwards.

Even if you're in your 30s, you've only TALKED to each other for a month, you don't know each other AT ALL. The fact that you already say "I love you" and talk about moving etc. is definitely a flag. You aren't teenagers anymore and should be more realistic. Even if you look good on paper, you might not be a good fit in reality.

/r/LongDistance Thread