33F thinking of leaving 35M because he won’t find a more balanced career

He told me today he’s not willing to make sacrifices unless something changes for how I am. Because he feels like I don’t like him. Which, I don’t know if he’s wrong, because all of this has grown to be such resentment. I love spending time with him, he’s a phenomenal dad, I appreciate him, but I feel like he’s never been willing to work with me towards equality because he values his own career goals more highly.

I mean....he's been honest from the start about what's important to him.... you mentioned your boundaries, too....but somehow still moved ahead and had one kid, another on the way.

I don’t want my kids to suffer over this but I feel I’m losing myself and with a partner who has failed to respect my values.

You didn't respect your own values.

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