everyones saying tk get a divorce asap but youve been living for 14 years and have 4 kids, youve built something . do you want to throw it away over a few sexting sessions your wife had. and she trusts you enough to tell you why she was upset. ofcourse she wouldnt tell you theyve been sexting and sending nudes. all these people here sayin get a divorce. you have 4 kids and a wife you built your life with for 14 years . I dont think this is something to get a divorce over. but i dont know how else to solve this conflict either. maybe talk to her about it and say your feelings and later go to a relationship consultant together and try to fix it out. I got the best wishes for you and your family, peace