You’re taking my poor word choices and putting your own narrative on it.

I appreciate your concern, but you know nothing of my life and are making assumptions on it based on a little excerpt of an anonymous post. (Which is fair game, but still)

He didn’t say he was checking her out, he said that a few times when she was braless he glanced - and immediately fixed his vision. That he felt guilty it even happened, which is why he wanted to talk to me.

The conversation about his friends, he told me what they said because she is constantly braless and he felt that it drew attention to her and was uncomfortable with his friends saying what they said, and with knowing me fears and history. He and I felt it was better to just ask her to keep one on when going out in public or if company in general is over. When I say she is large chested, she has me beat at my DD.

Thank you for your concern, but I only put the context needed for OP. I was a victim in my childhood and find myself overly cautious when it comes to my daughter. I don’t need to explain myself to you, but wanted to as I can tell you’re concerned. Thanks for caring.