It’s pretty commonly accepted that cheater and cheater-accomplices are the lowest of the low. In relationships. What makes your situation even worse, is that you were invited into the house, and you and the wife broke all the rules and you’re perfectly fine with it. And the husband, who invited you into the house along with the wife, you have NO care for. This is just about the lowest of the lowest of the low of the cheating tier. I think the only thing that would be worse is if you found out that she had a daughter and you had an affair with the daughter as well. If you felt bad for what you did, you have would have had a lot more people on here who were trying to help you out. But you were so self-absorbed, and you were only worried about the wife and perfectly fine to stay with her and break up her marriage if she wants. That’s a giant pile of steaming shit right there.