39F I had a pretty great hobby meeting people through CL personals, but that got shut down. Tinder was fun, but too hard to keep discreet. I have a current relatively long term FWB that I’m looking to replace, but no luck so far. Too many hang ups, and he doesn’t give me enough attention. Judging by the 80+ casual encounter ads he placed, I think he’s more into the chase than the actual sex, and I’m too old to be playing hard to get for the sake of some man’s ego. I love everything about sex. The entire ritual from start to finish. I might be a sex/love addict. My first casual encounter was a complete stranger who I spoke to for about 24 hours before meeting at a department store and going at it in the dressing room. Completely unfulfilling. The best was a recently divorced guy who took complete control in bed, but he wanted a regular girlfriend and I’m married. Oh, and I fell in love with a casual encounter one time. That was batshit crazy. I had to quit that cold turkey because it would have dragged on forever and everyone was getting hurt.