Yeah I see what you are saying, she is not a plan B I can promise that. We are not compatible we are not attracted to each other. It's weird but she is like my sister there is not and never will be anything between us again. We really only talk on the phone for 15 mins a fortnight and a few random texts. it would seem weird on the outside looking in I get that. I am 100% certain she wasn't looking for a hook up when she called me. If she was I wouldn't have put myself in that situation by answering the phone in front of partner but I have nothing to hide in that department. Foolish choice not bringing it to light earlier I guess. But an innocent mistake because I didn't think it was anything worth hiding or talking about.