39 year old small dick guy who recently lost virginity

This information you're giving is useless. You're just reaffirming previously established fears in that our small dicks are inferior, by saying that we have to look past our defects. Compensate compensate compensate. I guess most here would want their dicks to be desired, not something to overcome.

I think the issue here is accepting that you've got an inferior dick, but you won't understand cos you need not come to such an acceptance. You got a tool you can use with confidence. Confident that your partner will enjoy it. While us small must do tricks and magic to compensate for our inferior tools. That's hard to accept, but you won't have to do that ofc.

I don't quite get why you're assuming I'm thinking sex is only for my benefit. That's one of the main reasons for my worry, that my potential partner would benefit more from a bigger dick. She most likely would, cos bigger is better. There just is something defeating about the fact that your sexual organ, not just as a symbol but also in the physical sense, is deemed inferior for giving pleasure by most women.

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