I (39f) found out my boyfriend (38m) had a secret emotional relationship with his secretary a couple of years ago and now I want out.

blahs blah blah. When I said his name she was stunned, didn't know what to say, and started begging for forgiveness, saying that she "needed" that kind of affection and I wasn't giving it to her, that she didn't know why she was doing it but just kept doing it, that it was in the past and wasn't talking to him anymore... which she was and I caught her in the lie. I found all this out 2 months after she took my son to another country and is refusing to bring him back... I'm using this info to get my son back, and show how fucked up she is, she lies through her teeth and I will never accept her after the fact she did this bullshit, and kept doing it once she was caught, people don't change. If ur s/o is doing some shady shit and is acting weird, believe your gut feeling, more than likely they have something going on that would be better for you to get out of that relationship.

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