Thanks for reaching out. (This is Lily, not John - we will always let you know who is writing :) ) We are very new to this as well. (We have made two trips to a swingers club - it was very odd... kinda fun in some ways... totally out of our comfort zone and intensely sexy.) You may reach us on Kik - John's Kik is ValHane1... he will share with me. If we get comfortable enough I will share my Kik as well. If you would prefer email you can reach us at [email protected]. We are laid back - A little nervous about this and quite ready to try more while taking it kinda slow. (Or faster depending on wine consumption on my part!) I have never been with a woman but would like to test the waters a bit - I have kissed and payed a little - most recently at a club and liked it. He is not bi but isn't afraid of accidental contact. We would definitely have same room sex... that happened on our first trip to the club - it was hot! I am 5'9" and about 150 - he is 5'11" about 195. We are both fit but by no means perfect. We have fun, have a great attitude and are low on drama. I would be great to hear back! L&J