44 happily married guy here as well. Your a cake eater as well and it's not that popular at least for the guys. Most of the women on here are in bad relationships and/or dead bedrooms and just want someone to complain to. I'm not hear to complain (maybe sometimes) but more to find someone I can connect with and add something to both our lives. I'm laid back and easy going for the most part. I run a business so I have to be on my game most every day but I like the excitement and adventure of life. I have a lot of interests but mainly health/nutrition, music, politics (FJB!), reading and I do have children still at home so I actually love spending time with my kids as much as possible.