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44 [m4f] #losangeles - you're wired differently sexually and so am i, let's actually communicate and see if you can be sub to my dom. wild times and strong bonds await
i believe a relationship that involves a healthy dose of kink requires commincation to stay sane, safe and endure. for that reason this post is going to be long. yikes.
i know finding that balance in a kink partner is difficult. yes, i've met some genuine subs and a lot of time wasters. yes, i realize some won't even read this whole post. but those women who can separate fantasy from reality and ideally seeking something ongoing this is your potential dom calling out to you like a sadistic siren. you have the desire and a little time to explore. you desire a relationship of a nature that we will come to define.
i've found that the avenues i've searched for partners and what they end up calling themselves(lg, sub, fwb, girlfriend, etc.) only allows a relationship to flourish. there's still all the dynamic dos and donts to figure out with each person since each being is a unique set of characteristics, emotions, and mindset and so many other things that there needs to be some way to figure put compatibility. but with that said you understand the difference and want to be lead astray with an experienced dom who has done this before and wants you to feel safe before completely defiling you.
you don't need anything but you want an outlet. your own private escape from the 24/7 grind. you want to surrender your inhibitions once a connection has been established so you can embark on your filthiest fantasies.
i’m not in a hurry. i have had successful and some not so successful experiences with submissive partners so before i spend energy and time instructing you to ideal submission i want to make sure that it’s a fit on both ends. i will only take down this post when that fit has been found. so, if your curious go ahead and reply.
submission is not immediate. you don't know me and i have no idea what your intent is. so, i will take time to slowly increase your level of surrender during our training sessions. sending you down a long rabbit hole of corruption and kink. building your strength to explore as i increase the level of submission required to continue. i don’t believe rushing to the most explicit acts right away. your depravity is something to earn and relish. once you have fully submitted you will be overwhelmed with pleasure and beg to return for more. this is a reward for your obedience. if you can yield your full control then you’ll discover the height of mental and physical stimulation. but that’s only if
i have more than a decade of bdsm experience at my disposal. i want to know who you are before determining how to peel away your layers of control. as a dom this is as much a creative pursuit as it a chance to unleash all that pent-up energy with someone who is not crazy. with that said…
my life isn’t 24/7 bdsm and i’m not looking for that from a possible sub. i’m not a super serious person. i can separate work from play, fantasy from reality. you should be able to do the same. d/s relations always work on play partners who are in sync. you want that.
the part about me: i’m in my early forties but working out constantly helps me look and feel younger, 5'10, single, 17.8 centimeters hung, i'm told it's a thick 7, educated, “white” in los angeles. i have a schedule that takes up a lot of time but would like to find a woman who's looking to explore some submissive depravity.
bdsm interests: lots. can be discussed if we reach that point.
i am 100% not into scat/pee/any bathroom stuff/gore/blood/underage or anything illegal. i am only looking to play in real life. so, if you’re not in los angeles county or travel to the area then this is not for you
the part about you: open-minded women over 20. ready to explore irl. has the capacity to write about herself and wants to go on this journey of surrender. not concerned with your relationship status as long as you're honest about it.
the next part: message me about you, your stats, your kinks, the last thing you masturbated to (porn, fantasy or real life experience to) and why you might be the perfect sub to corrupt. i’m seeking an ideal personality more than any “type of look” so if you want this go ahead and reply with a pm