I [45M] have fallen for a fellow Redditor [30F] in less than 3 months; and we are both (happily) married.

Well it doesn't really help those trying to give advice if you're leaving details out, so hopefully you're at least being honest with yourself about the reality of the situation, all things considered.

Lemme try to put out my thoughts in a clear, succinct way. Obviously I don't have all the information, so I'll make do with what I have. I think you don't know this woman at all. I've had online friendships, online relationships, and online friendships while in a relationship. I don't know the extent of contact that you two have had, besides that it's never been in person, but I can tell you with 100% certainty that you do not know this woman, and that you a flirting with an online persona.

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