I (48M) Lost My Patience With Co Worker (23M) About Working On My Designs

Something like this happened to me when I was around your coworkers age. It completely killed my passion for my career, ruined my self esteem for a while and still has me second guessing myself at my new job. Unlike your coworker, I got an apology, but you can’t take back words. The only thing that would have helped me is accountability.

Apologize to your coworker and mean it. Ask him how he wants to move forward at work - whether that’s reporting it to HR, not sharing projects anymore or avoiding each other in general.

I hope you actually act on the advice you’re given here and don’t just use this post as a way to make yourself feel better.

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