This is so in point. You have read my struggles perfectly. These days I have been thinking of giving up a potential partner/friend (I don't really know where I am situated) just because he is not moving in the same manner and rhythm Iexpect it to. He is indeed a high value man but I have been growing quite tired of this uncertainty as we have been in contact For quite a solid amount of time - 7 months and have been going out and talked more consistently for the past 2. I honestly feel disgust for losing so much time and this situation not materializing into anything proactive or just edging. I am not impatient but this time frames seem just over the counter for any reasonable individual. Enough with the rant. Thank you for your energy and maybe yes, my lesson is to really ponder this situation better and not make moves that I might regret. Maybe I should adjust to his rhythm and not otherwise. I should wait and see and give on more chance.