6 year relationship and I (32F) still don’t know where I stand with him (32M)

I don’t think he’d work with anyone if his mindset stays the same, I genuinely wish the best for him even if we did break up and wouldn’t like his life to be full of shit relationships. I don’t think I can go on ive got a constant stress headache. I’m surprised it’s gone on for this long and you’re right, he is my kryptonite.

It’s funny to think that he chased me for nearly 2 years before we got together, then when he finally got his hook in how everything has reversed. I’ve never kept the door open for him when he’s left me, no contact at all and I try to get on with my life and pick up the pieces only to be sucked in again. I’ve been mentally fucked over I think.

Im venting, but this has honestly shed a light on everything. I know it deep down but I’m in denial, it’s a relief hearing it from someone else, thank you

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