70 hours of work a week. I can barely cap my tomes and weekly custom turn in. And I have to squeeze a relationship too

I know how you feel, OP. Between October of 2017 and February of 2018 I was working 60-80 hours a week and didn't have any time for videogames at all. I'd go to work, eat, shower, watch TV for an hour to relax, then start the process over again. I didn't have time for XIV and let it lapse until March.

Don't let the game dictate your schedule. If you can't do something, you can't do it. There's nothing wrong with catching up later.

Now I have a different job where I "work" from home 30 hours a week and am in the office another 10-12 a week. The reality is I do about 20 hours of actual work a week now with most of it in the office, then spend the rest of my time playing Vidya on the clock.

Things will get better.

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