You are extremely thorough. And you are forming patterns. I see why you’re having some difficulty. I will have to get back to you as I am like many of us going on days without sleep. But a suggestion ( and this can actually help determine type ) is find out your enneagram. Enneagram is development it is a part of the equation for your formula and can give tangible directions to your life. Put together with cognitive functions it can help to see the variables. If I’m making sense to you you are likely an intuitive. But sensors can also have intuition in their cognitive function stacks. First we need to find out your enneagram. Keep well and safe sweetie. I hope you and your family, love ones are ok. Feel free to touch base with me. I’m INFJ btw.