9 Reasons It’s So Hard to Find a Good Man

  1. Hookup culture has taken over. Women don't want to lower their standards. They want their hookup guy to love them. And they don't. Women are okay with this. As long as attractive men are charitable with their dicks to unattractive women, unattractive men have no right to be angry (or sad for that matter).

  2. People have too many options. Women have too many options. Every woman gets spammed with people wanting to meet them everyday. Yes, the "hi" people count because they would gladly meet you. Men have to few options.

  3. Lots of guys are holding out for something “better.” Women are holding out for something better. Men aren't good enough for them. We are belittled if we aren't perfect. Women have a list of things they require in order to talk to them.

  4. Marriage is becoming obsolete. Fidelity is obsolete. Women see how deperate men are, when their price charming isn't anymore (shockingly he is a human being with flaws), some guy in the office starts to look better. She sees all the attention she gets from social media. The grass is always greener when you are no longer wanting to continue to work on a relationship.

  5. Some men are intimidated by power. Women want equals. They don't want a man who makes less than them or god forbid has less ambition than them. Men happily choose the reverse, so you have male lawyers going out with female retail managers. Just because she happens to be slightly better looking than he could get at his own pay grade.

  6. Technology has created distance. Technology created a monster. It feeds women's egos with delusions of grandeur. All negative feedback is muted with a block button. They've become special princesses with hundreds of suitors that tell them they can do no wrong.

  7. The “man-child” is a legitimate problem. Men are giving up, never before have so many men just decided to quit the existence of trying being the perfect guy. They'd rather play Call of Duty and World of Warcraft. I'm going to kick my ass just so I can be kicked to the curb at the next opportune moment?

  8. Everyone has their baggage. Women care far more about baggage than men do.

  9. Being phobic of commitment is accepted. For the guys women want to date. They just play the commitment song and dance just long enough to get in their pants.

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