I just don’t think this “reactive abuse” line gets trotted out if the roles were reversed. People are making this crazy psyche analysis based on essentially zero evidence and jumping through hoops to excuse Gabby of any wrongdoing.

At best we have conflicting witness reports on whether he hit her at all. But we have evidence that she hit him “to get him to stop telling her to calm down”. He has visible injuries. And she admits it. I think the people trying to make it black and white are the ones trying to back into confirmation of their priors regarding BL and Gabby.

She should have been arrested and the cops fucked up in gaming the system to give her a pass.