I'm not talking about men's issues so I would much appreciate if people do not hijack this topic with "but what about men?" ( which in addition to being a useful deflection is a falacy of privation ).

And I do not find sexism, no matter how minute, funny. I am speaking to my experience here. Perhaps yours is different and that's great, but I'd like to think women here who feel uncomfortable on the basis of their sex are not silenced the same way many Muslim women are when they complain.

Also kindly read my other comments. This rant is less about gendered slurs and more about a sexist and silencing, (even insulting) culture towards women who voice discontent in here. I should not have to deal with anyone mentioning my personal vagina in a joking or insulting way in an intellectual discussion. My vagina is not the objectif of jest abs I have every right to be offended and uncomfortable with any forum that defends that.