This is about to get messy...

My ex went running to the kids first (they were 22, 20 and 18) when he found out about MM. They knew he was aware of MM before I did so it does happen. It was 100% an exit affair for me so the chips fell where they did. My ex created a lot of animosity in the house both before and after I moved out and everyone fed off of his anger for awhile.

That was 10 years ago and all but the 20 year old has gotten over it and moved on. Partly I suppose, because MM is still married, I don't know because she really doesn't speak to me. Though it is not all MM related, we had our own issues before I divorced her dad. I have a good relationship with the other two and both have met MM, my son shook his hand and introduced himself, my youngest lives with me and sees him regularly.

MM has dealt with threats to take his son from him for years, not an issue now he is a teen, but it was for a very long time. And she has no proof we are together either, let alone for the past 10 years.

W has had her own brief affair as well. MM thinks she will be pushing to sell next year when their son is an adult. We will see I guess but MM can't sell because he works from the property, so he needs to figure that out.

Will his divorce be messier than mine.. only time will tell. But from what I have heard.. I imagine it won't be pleasant.

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