About ready to end my relationship of 7 years

He can legally work up to 80 hours in 8 days and I know he ususally hits that, if not he's never under 75. But with his schedule, he doesn't have days off. The last day we spent together was early November for our anniversary, and since then it's just been a few hours here and there, never more than 3 at a time, and usually only a few days a week.

I wasn't trying to be dramatic when I said I felt single, because I do. I spent Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve and Christmas alone. Will most likely spend Valentine's Day alone.

It was just a very sudden and confusing transition. I am certain that this isnt what I want out of a relationship, what I'm not sure on is how much longer I'm willing to tough it out for in hope of better days.

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