Accused of cheating

I’m just putting this out there…

It seems like you posted something about a non-monogamous relationship with your gf and she turned it down saying she wasn’t comfortable.

I see that you deleted the post, but your comments are still there.

Maybe she feels like you were asking about it because you already had someone else in mind? Or because she feels like because you may be interested in an open relationship or polyamory that she isn’t enough for you so she feels like you’re testing the waters.

Obviously her remarks are coming from a place of distrust and hurt. Depending on the reasonings, it may not end up working out. You guys can either talk it out and be super open (and specific) with each other, try couples counseling if you guys are serious, or break up.

Either way, you need to both lay out your expectations because her assuming you’re cheating everyday whether it’s on your deleted post or not, isn’t healthy.

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