Do actions speak louder than words or are guys really just that horny?

It's the very nature of how human bodies and hormones work with romantic / sexual relations. When you as a man ejaculate in a woman both of your bodies are releasing the hormone oxytocin. This powerful hormone does a ton of different beneficial things. It lowers stress, lowers anxiety, improves mood, but most importantly it builds a strong bond between both partners. So essentially the more one has sex the more they will be bonded with the other party. This makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint as we developed these hormones and reactions to further the propagation of the species.

That being said though this would also explain why he's becoming more and more attached to you as time goes on and you guys have continued to have a physical romantic relationship. Perhaps consider stopping physical intimacy if this is crossing a line you aren't comfortable with anymore. But yea essentially if you are continuing to have an intimate sexual relationship with someone don't be surprised when they become more attached to you.

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