Admitted vulnerability to him...

I laughed out loud actually the translations were funny to read. Thanks for your candor. I recognize I need fixing that's why I'm on this sub.

Just to clarify - we both started out casual. I know I am damaged and don't have energy for a proper relationship, so I closed myself up and just told myself this is just sex. But his expressed interest and kind character made me rethink what I want, and I've probably developed feelings already but just too scared to dive in. To show my gratitude for his nice treatment to me, I've given him small gifts, cooked/cleaned for him etc. whenever I'm open at his place.

I'm just worried he's using me for sex because despite bringing up he wants to hang out outside multiple times, he hasn't exactly scheduled anything concrete. Me asking him if we were just fucking made it quite clear my returned interest. If it's just casual, it should be clear so we can both have boundaries. If it's not casual, well then my expectations go up, right?

Now yes, I started this off wrong. I see that this is potentially a great guy and I want to make things right, and be the confident person I was before I met the last asshole. I do ultimately want a relationship. This is just my second sex partner, and it was casual because I was in "monk mode" to heal - well with sex because I love sex.

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