No, she hasn't. One area where we differ vastly is that she has come out of a 22 year relationship that was mostly bad and dead for 10 years. I've had - in and around LTRs, a lifetime in the fetish and swinging scene -and while I'd never use numbers as proof of a superior ability, it does give one a generalised view of how things can be - also that scene is very much about talking and feedback and instruction etc. She's a handful of vanilla ONS / etc between her relationship and me, but I'm the first one she's met that she's comforatable enough around to consider a "partner" (meet the kids, stay over, etc). So it's quite possible that this is entirely the normal for her.

We can talk, and do - and we've had to about other subjects.I have commented about how wonderfully wet she gets (don't get me wrong - it is nice), I was jsut wondering if she'd ever point out the frequency of which even she has to put me back in.