Oops.. You blew it . You first go down on her ... Flip her over with force and lick her ass ...tongue fuck her while you play with her clit ... Make her cum.... You rewire her brain that ... Ass = JOY. Assfucking can be viewed as a hostle act .. You have to rewrite the rules . weeks go by... Months even ... Ass play is SLOWLY worked in ... Every third theme you have sex ... Don't push the issue... Have a plan . Go down on her and finger her ass.. Don't go inside .... Just outside... Rewire her again ... Make her cum.... Reward and condition her . Lick her ass... Play with her ass ...orgasm her while doing so .... After weeks... Finger fuck her ass while licking her to orgasm .... Work your way up to thumb fucking her ass while you fuck her from behind. get her to desire anal play ..... You have to get her brain to desire it ... Want her to give you something that is so special between a couple... If you do it right .. A woman is ready to have anal sex when you hear ... Please!!! Fuck me up the ass!!! Lube yourself when the time comes and go slow ... She'll tell you when she wants it hard and fast. anal sex is more a ... Mature woman type thing.. Hot sexual women who have more desire than fear... Warm loving sexy grown up women. I had a lover who craved anal ( after I licked her ass.. Fingered her ass while going down on her... You have to warm them up every time... It's an ass... It needs to be switched to the on position) an would always have four to seven orgasms while assfucking before wanting me to cum inside of her. My first experience was at 18 .. She was 17 ... Driving back together on a two hour trip... I fingered her most of the way home ... Her pants were off an hour into the trip and was showing off for truckers .. First time I fingered her ass .. She was so hot/slutty/ adorable ... I was there for the birth of her inner whore... She became total WOMAN for the first time .. Wild little thing ... We wanted each other so badly ... We arrived back to our town.. Drove right to our secret parking spot..and got buck naked on the hood of my car during a torrential thunderstorm... After fucking her pussy from behind with my thumb up her ass ... Our first time for that .... I sliped my cock in her ass and slowly slid all the way in ... She was surprised but at 5'9" she was built for very adult sex ... She fucked me right back and told me if we were going to do this I better play with her clit at the same time. I was a day in a young mans life that is impossible to forget.