What are western men so thick and uncivilised? A society in which there is promiscuity is eventually going to have a fall out. The bottom-line is most people believe relationships are sacred. And this is the real conversation that needs to be had. Either relationships are mindless, benign, and we are all still uncivilised animals or we admit its not cool to indulge promiscuity.

Why would having sex with multiple partners be ok before marriage and not be after? Why does the dynamics change now that you're married? Seminal self control and respect for fellow men is important. Unfortunately society is uncivilised.

We are seeing far fewer millenials marrying and this is partly the reason. PLus I bet there will be a upcoming huge fallout we are starting to see early divorces.