He's only using it to try to gain control over me. Basically 'You will have all this when I'm gone so you must put up with my narcissistic behaviour'. It is a long story but imagine opening a business with your father and then they cut you out because your job of the setting it all up was done and they could make double the money without a partner. And after all that they threaten to sue you for the half they had invested. Their business is as successful as predicted and you start ignoring them so they begin to try to offer you all of these things, which should of already been yours, in return you must be a good boy and impress all their fake gold digger friends while providing free advice or consulting for their company.