There are many cougars out there looking for cubs.i know there are many websites with older ladies looking for younger guys. Even if there are lots of ladies wanting they will be shy to let you know without the guy flirting first. Mostly because of fear of rejection.and she may feel like keeping it a secret between only you and her.because of social stigma. People will stare and gossip if they see yous as a couple. And its really no one elses business. It can be a great thing for young guys to be with an older woman.Alot are established with great carreers and may spoil you with buying you things lol..even if you and a lady have a secret thing going on be careful because some ladies may get really jealous even if they know the relationship is not a serious one that leads to marriage....she may want you to only be her stud! But of course thats just one scenario. Did you ever see that lady again? Lol..something may have happened for sure if she wasnt your moms friend.lol...depending on how much younger you are to the lady maybe she will feel bad to take advantage of you.so she wont do it. How old are you? I can tell you how to go about it better if i know your age and what age range you want the e lady?