Advice on sending the first message

This is literally the best advice I have seen anyone give. Follow ALL of it. Only thing I would add..Remember all couples are different and are into MFM for different reasons. Not all ladies are in this to fuck another dude. A lot, like my wife, just have a fantasy of having the challenge of having their husband and another guy. So many guys assume that the couple is a cuck couple where the husband just sits back and watches. Not always the case. My wife would never do a MFM if I wasn’t involved. The #1 rule is be respectful. Not all wives want to be treated like a piece of meat. Not all wives want a dick pic. My wife has blocked dudes that send dick pics. They will let you know if they want a dick pic at some point. Enter the situation as you are helping the husband give his wife a great night. Don’t be like some of these asses and act like their dick will be the best dick the wife has ever had. Total turnoff for most women. I have been on both sides being a bull and having a wife doing a MFM. Showing respect and acting normal till you get to the actual date is a real turn on for women. Most wives don’t want their husband disrespected during all of this. Sexual Innuendos instead of blatant sexual comments work very well on dates with a woman and her husband.

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