I've been in a relationship for a while now and we have a couple kids now. A couple years ago I was looking at jobs out of state which made my SO uncomfortable because they are from the state we live in now, Maine. After expressing they wouldn't be able to move too far away from their family I gave up my hopes of moving out of state and essentially starting over.

Fast forward a couple months when were discussing something similar and they say " You know, It doesn't matter where we live as long as we're together" - Nothing more true has ever been said in my life and I feel like it applies to yours as well. I haven't thoroughly read ALL of your posts but I get the general idea of your situation. It must bring you great relief to have your own home again. I'm just a stranger from the internet, but I'm proud of you man.

TBH most other people would have given up. Push forward brother. You got this.