After a few months of flirting and being sweet together, i rejected him because of fear of commitment. We kept being friends but...

In my opinion, having feelings for each other complicates things. You guys probably just guised your relationship as friendship because you didn’t want to lose each other, or the comfort the other brings.

I’m not saying two people who like each other can’t be friends, but I think there’s a lot of blurred lines and uncertainties. Maybe he’s still keeping his hopes up that you’ll change your mind because you’re still being sweet and all.

If you’re absolutely certain that you don’t want to be with him, then let him go. He might choose to wait until you’re ready, he might move on. Just be sure about what you really want and make him understand your stance. Hirap ng more than friends but less than lovers.

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