I agree with this, and the post I linked in the replies

So back when FDS was new-ish (or at least to me) I subbed because there was a post I agreed with basically saying don’t do certain things if the relationship hasn’t reached a certain point. Why would you relocate cross country or certain other things for someone who isn’t your spouse. I thought there was a good point to it. Then I saw... other posts with much more extreme viewpoints. I eventually was basically told I was violating sub rules by advocating my lifestyle where I was monogamous with a good man because he hasn’t given me a ring. Like that justifies cheating? Fuck that. Still with the guy, still not married yet, still happy as heck, and we have an amazing future planned.

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