Ain’t that right boys?

I'm a mostly passable tgirl near the city, so I receive around 100 to 200 messages per day and it's just not reasonable for me to reply to every single one of them to let them know I'm not interested. I used to try doing this on slower days, but no matter how softly I put it, it opened the door enough times to genuinely creepy, harassive and explicitly threatening behavior from upset men that it just wasn't worth it to try anymore.

I have facepics on my profile and make it clear I expect as much from people messaging me. However, I'm not able to reply to every guy who sends me one because there's still just too many of them. If someone is not entirely comfortable showing their face for the opportunity to hook up with me, it's better for their sake they just look elsewhere.

Half of the time I tell a guy I'm not interested, they completely ignore it as if any remote attention I've given them is finally their opportunity to send a dickpic, talk about their sexual interests, beg to hook up, and message me even more. I'm just not interested in putting up with that shit anymore. If I got only a handful of messages a day like some guys i know, I'd definitely wanna give people the same time and effort to let them know I'm not interested that they probably put into messaging me, but it's just not the case.

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