AITA because bf’s family likes to attack me and I had enough of it?

Yeah i only posted the first one she sent me because it was very vague. I do agree I shouldn’t have done that, I wish I had room in the post to explain all the horrible things she has done to me over the years but there was a strict character limit. I do agree though that I did do something that was dumb, she did start the whole fight though to begin with and used it as an excuse to start another one a month later where things went too far on their side. I guess my whole point is I’m trying to see whether other people agree with them that their actions are justified because of mine? I do agree that I messed up, I don’t agree to the severity they are making it out to be to justify what happened though. But maybe I’m wrong

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