AITA because I’m mad because my gay brother decided to come out at my daughters 4th b day party?

INFO: If everyone already knows (but you, who now knows), how is this event about him coming out? Isn’t it just about family who already knows celebrating with an additional person invited? If you said yes before you knew it was another male, would it have been fine for him to bring his female romantic interest so the family could get to know her? What if it was just a friend from work, who was unrelated to any romantic history at all? If you would have been fine with him bringing a female companion who was romantically linked to him to join you all for the first time, but are against him bringing a boyfriend to meet for the fist time, I would consider revisiting why you are upset about this.

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