ur a huge asshole. u better reward ur daughter for putting up with ur selfish bullshit. what about ur daughter? doesn’t she get to have fun? why do u have such a huge double standard between u and ur daughter? why do u get to prioritize ur party over ur own children but she cant prioritize her party over the same children? did u just have kids and do the bare minimum (taking care of them) to ask for forced labor in return? u realize thats fucked up right? dont even start with how hard u worked to take care of all ur kids because nobody forced u to have all these kids, and if someone did, take it out on THEM. not ur poor daughter. its not about how much u do, its not a competition. its about doing what ur responsible for.