AITA (cousin) For wanting to be part of a decision making process for my GFs Pregnancy?

NTA

One of my favorite disputed ridiculous arguments is the it's her body she will do what she wants. while yes, it is her body. her body is designed to do exactly that and recover (for the most part) completely after.

The notion that the guy should have no say or even input in it is ludicrous. The way the world is set up, depending on her choice, HIS life is affected (arguably as much or more) as hers. whether it be by becoming a parent when they aren't mature enough, child support for years to come with prison/fines if they decide not to or can't pay. or even the emotional toll of having a baby and then forcibly having that baby removed against their will if they aren't on board for the adoption.

really the only option the guy shouldn't have the ability to have input on is if she doesn't want to have the baby (abortion) and he wants one badly. because he shouldn't force her to give birth. just like she shouldn't force him to be a dad or give up his child.

one of my favorite counter arguments to this is if she doesn't want a man to have any say in how she handles her body (whether through law or individuals) she shouldn't have any right to decide if a baby boy should be circumcised because it looks better. one post I read recently had a pretty good idea proposed, that if the guy wants out before the baby is born (if they weren't planning it and she decides it's a green light) he should have the right to sign over all parental rights prior to birth. kinks would need to be worked out, but it's a cool idea

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