Someone used the word weirdo in another comment, hence why I chose that word.
OP asked for advice about a social situation. MOST comments are discussing OP getting therapy, which OP has repeatedly explained is NOT the subject. Still, that is not being respected and keeps being brought up. So OP is NOT getting their question answered OR being respected. And then, on top of that, OP is being treated like they're wrong for pointing out this irrelevancy and subsequent injustice.
Why is this? This is the -exact- behavior pattern that is trying to be understood. Why does 'not accepting GO TO THERAPY as an answer' enforce ya'll idea that OP is the disagreeable one?