AITA for asking my wedding guest to leave for wearing his military uniform at my wedding?

R4: Accept Your Judgment.

Either you’re a delightfully talented troll or you’re delusional. This subreddit doesn’t exist for vindication. It exists for you to be declared an asshole or not. Even with additional information, it appears that you’re considered the asshole.

Personally, I wouldn’t have asked the guy to leave but I can see why it’d be construed as “stealing the spotlight”. That being said, the way you’re speaking gives the impression that you’re rude and presumptuous.

(The irony that me, a commenter, is calling you presumptuous based off of a single post isn’t lost on me. But this is the impression I’ve gotten. I wouldn’t kick you out of my wedding for being presumptuous I suppose.)

He should’ve clarified if it was okay. He didn’t. That warrants a conversation after. The way you handled this wasn’t tactful and was a surefire way to alienate your in laws and make future gatherings immensely uncomfortable. There were 300 guests at the wedding. As a top commenter said, I bet a lot of people were acting unbecoming and he was being a gentleman as you said. There are other things you could’ve taken issue with.

ESH... but based on your commentary on the event, I think YTA. But you don’t care about that.

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