AITA for asking my friend not to announce her pregnancy during my birthday?

NAH. I understand this was a special night for you and I think your feelings about it are valid. I also think I can understand your friends point of view. This is going to be the biggest news of her entire life. I can imagine going through an evening with your friends (especially while everyone is in a celebratory mood anyway) and not being able to share this would be difficult. And to be fair she didn’t bring it up until someone asked her about not drinking. I understand this wasn’t just a usual birthday for you, but at the same time it isn’t a normal pregnancy for your friend. Both are special and both deserved to be celebrated. I don’t see anything wrong with celebrating them together. So I don’t really understand the hate directed at this friend (not from OP, but from other people making comments).

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