Hey back the f-ck up, eventually that baby will have to sleep in their own room and learn to be a bit on their own more. Over 12 months the baby should start moving into a nursery. It’s called growing. I never said anything about refusing to meet them or ignoring them which is why I suggested the camera and baby monitor to keep an eye on them. If you can see and hear that your baby is fine, maybe they are awake and let’s say just babbling or cooing, there is NO REASON TO COME RUING OUT OF BED! Sometimes babies DO cry for no real reason, it happens. Again she carried and birthed, the least he can do is let her rest and bond with the baby more as a dad.