AITA for asking my husband to let his daughter stay with her mom while we establish ourselves during our first year of marriage?

YTA- “I had no desire to serve a mother figure to her.” Obviously your intentions are to only serve yourself. Why would you ever think that it’s okay to take away a child from her father. She needs her father. It’s a selfish act to even ask that from him and importantly her. To start a right foot into your marriage means to work on the tough parts together. You came into the relationship and marriage knowing he is a father. His daughter is a vital factor in his life. To establish a life together means being a part of this factor. It’s not going away. Pretending a life without her isn’t going to end well. Your justification of this making your marriage stronger will be a lie because your starting your marriage with one. You don’t need to be her mom but don’t be a bad stepmother.

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