YTA, and I'm guessing you're either a troll or incredibly full of yourself if you really think he, his wife and your friends haven't noticed your creepy obsession with this poor sod. You couldn't be more obvious if you tried - you mention how hot he is no fewer than three times in the first paragraph alone, and tore down this poor woman whom he married and will have a child with soon just because you can't fathom him not wanting your oh-so-amazing self. He married her because he deeply loves her and her appearance clearly doesn't matter to him as much as it seems to you. Looks aren't everything, or at least they're not everything to people who aren't crazy jealous over a man they clearly want being happy with someone else. You need to take a good look at yourself.