AITA for being insecure and bringing up the past to my bf?

you are letting this man destroy your self worth for YEARS to come. that shit doesnt go away.

he has not changed. he knows what he's doing and gaslighting you into believing youre too sensitive, etc.

for lack of better words. RUN. NEVER LOOK BACK. i swear to you, that your older self will thank you.

why would someone tthat loves you try to make you insecure or make jokes like that? THEY WOULDNT. stop making excuses for him. he's done damage to your self worth for years (since he was 17). dont stay. im actually begging you as a stranger from the internet, that knows you deserve more and that if you stay, theres a lot more hurt and gaslighting to come. please leave.

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